{"id":899,"date":"2012-03-14T07:00:48","date_gmt":"2012-03-14T12:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.totellyouthetruth.net\/?p=899"},"modified":"2012-03-14T07:00:48","modified_gmt":"2012-03-14T12:00:48","slug":"899","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/?p=899","title":{"rendered":"Is Love A Decision ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One statement that irks me says something like this, &#8220;Love is a decision &#8211; decide to love today.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Really? And we know this for <em>sure<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>What drives me nuts about statements such as this is they are commands.  If love is simply a decision, then I can love anybody at any time. Right? <em>Right<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>But can I truly love on demand? You are certainly a better person than I if you can love on demand.  I can&#8217;t do it.<\/p>\n<p>And this is where the Gospel steps in.  John 4:19 tells us &#8220;We love because he [God] first loved us.&#8221;  And John couples this great truth with &#8220;If anyone says, &#8216;I love God,&#8217; and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And this is good news.  I can only love when I see that I am as unloving as they come, yet God in Christ first loved me! And this is my motivation to love others.  When I see that God has loved me and demonstrated this great love for me in Jesus on the cross, I can love others because the Spirit of love indwells me and loving others becomes a fruit of the Spirits Gospel-applying work in my life. (See Galatians 5).<\/p>\n<p>And then I can love God and love others upon which all the commands hang.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One statement that irks me says something like this, &#8220;Love is a decision &#8211; decide to love today.&#8221; Really? And we know this for sure? What drives me nuts about statements such as this is they are commands. If love is simply a decision, then I can love anybody at any time. Right? Right? But [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[58,68],"tags":[212,303,304],"class_list":["post-899","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gospel","category-love-of-god","tag-fulfilling-the-law","tag-loving-god","tag-loving-others"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s3hM8I-899","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/899","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=899"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/899\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.davecruver.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}